Smoothing the Shift — Helping Kids Transition Out of the School Year
The end of the school year marks a significant transition for every child—but for children with autism, this change can feel like a complete upheaval. The shift from the highly structured, predictable school environment to the open, often unstructured pace of summer can be jarring. As a caregiver, you can help this transition feel safe, manageable, and even exciting!
Why This Transition Can Be Difficult
Children with autism often rely on predictable routines and clearly defined expectations to stay regulated. The school environment offers visual schedules, consistent timing, social structure, and built-in support systems. The sudden removal of this scaffolding can lead to:
Increased anxiety or uncertainty
Regression in independence or emotional regulation
Behavioral responses such as tantrums, shutdowns, or resistance
Support Strategies for a Smoother Transition
1. Preview the Transition
Start preparing your child for the end of school several weeks in advance.
Use visual calendars to count down the days.
Talk about what will happen on the last day: “On Friday, you’ll bring home your backpack and say goodbye to your teacher.”
Read social stories that explain summer break and what will change.
2. Provide Closure
Helping your child say goodbye to the school year can bring emotional resolution.
Create a "Goodbye to School" ritual, such as a small gift for the teacher or making a card!
Make a scrapbook with photos or drawings from the year
Have a “Summer Kickoff Day” with a favorite activity or treat
3. Validate Their Emotions
You might hear, “I don’t want summer,” or notice irritability. These are valid reactions to change.
Label and validate: “I know it feels weird not to go to school anymore. That’s a big change.”
Avoid minimizing feelings and let them know it's okay to feel unsure.
4. Introduce What Comes Next
Don’t just say what’s ending—highlight what’s beginning.
Create a summer preview chart showing activities, camps, or home-based fun.
If there will be a new caregiver or babysitter, do an introduction ahead of time with photos (social story) or a visit!
5. Keep One Foot in Routine
While school is ending, keep morning and bedtime routines consistent. This helps your child feel anchored while the daytime schedule shifts!
Transitions are hard—but they’re also opportunities to build resilience. With preparation, emotional support, and intentional routines, your child can move into summer with a greater sense of ease and even excitement!